cannot be conducted with any form of viability if abuse is present. Other factors that make it impossible for a marriage to be salvaged include the stress caused by bad habits such as gambling or drinking; financial stress brought about by irresponsibility and recklessness; an uncaring and inconsiderate attitude that causes a loss of self-worth and respect. If things such as these are present and only one partner is willing to work at it, the situation is hopeless. There has to be a commitment from